A few weeks ago, my pastor, Pete Briscoe brought before us our primary, secondary and personal purposes for life.  You can imagine my excitement in hoping he was going to write my life plan up on his white board and finally end my agonizing.  Instead he said, your primary purpose is to be a child of God.  And if that is all you ever do, that is enough.  As I’m processing the truth of this, I am also hearing my therapist’s words as I walk out of his office the last time, “Don’t let the privilege of choice become a …